My life has gone through so much turmoil of over whole Twinflame deal. Is that even true? Alright, let me rephrase; my life has gotten more COMPLICATED since this Twinflame stuff [for lack of a better word/box/label]. That's what it is really; a word. It's how us humans conceptualize things. We need to be able to assign value to it and then decide how it fits in our own life. Twinflame is the main term to describe what many New Ageers or "Newly AWAKENED" describe a profound connection with another person. This is an immediate Cosmic wake-up call for at least one if not BOTH of the people that are alledgedly involved in this beautfiul connection. Yeah, I said it; beautiful connection. I mean how can I say complicated AND beautiful when talking about this connection right? I can and the reason is this, while most all of us run into so much chaos with this connection and find ourselves in very complicated situations ,with current lovers, spouses, distance and even differences in age, we also find the amazing potential to expand our ability to love whatever it is we are dealing with and appreciate every moment as we learn it's function in our own personal growth. We begin to navigate our physical experience from our heart space more often and judge less; even just ourselves less.
These connections have the amazing capacity to present us with such challenging situaitons, that perhaps we didn't deal with well in previously times, and yet we are able to accept the challenge and move through these situations with much more ease and many times this is confusing for our friends. Sometimes they confuse our capacity to forgive, accept and love with just being naive. We forgive more; love more; judge less. While we may not have it all perfectly mastered, we are conscious enough to make it right. We are, in the end, still human in this experiene.
With all that said, I've tossed around the notion so many times that this Twinflame thing can't be real. Many of my friends have as well. I have recently touched base with many who have just decided that Twinflame is not the correct description for this experience. Maybe it is; maybe it isn't. I also have spoken to many who have moved on in their Twinflame relationships and found the strength to move into a new era in their life and allow a Soulmate relationship. Does this mean they didn't have a Twinflame? No way!
What I have found is many of us are separated and continue to be. Most all still struggle with the pain of separation and have not chose to accept things are they are but only to judge it. Others of us have accepted our circumstances and have returned to life as it was previously but with more love while even more left parts of their old life behind to find happiness; peace and contentment while deciding the next step. The seemingly consistant quality in all those scenarios is that they are all better for it. They all continue to work; think; act in love and have no doubt that their previous experience with their Twinflame is nothing to dismiss. It is a connection to be cherished and a connection that can never be lost. We're not talking physical folks; it's a connection that is at the very core of your being. A connection that made you look at YOURSELF and see all the great things to love about YOU and all the things unloved that are still great. It made all those who have experienced this the best they can be and just getting better. Who does that?
I'll tell you who does that GOD. God or whoever you want to call your diety or source/divine/Universe. Who cares it's just a name right? That thing that DIVIDES PEOPLE. This experience is not about division (I hate math anyway...) it's about UNION. The Twinflame helps us see ourselves; love ourselves and learn to love everything/everyone around us. It teaches us to honor ALL connections as they are truly all are very important to our lives and it helps us do that through Unconditional Love. That's TRUE LOVE. It's not about a physical relationship although you may have had one briefly or stll do. You may have never had it in the first place but long for it. Don't long. Go within your heart and know it's always with you.
Unconditional Love has the capacity to fix all things. If you have this experience you will notice that you have healed many OTHER relationships as a result. Maybe you feel like your Twinflame experience is not what it should be yet, and by yet I mean not your expectations but allowing, but that YET will change over time as you begin to let go and accept your NOW. Push that illusion curtain away that is filled with longing, pain, what if's, what for's and WTF (Yeah I said it...dont say you didn't through this at least once!). Once you learn to deal with your NOW and move forward in love you will begin to see clearly. You will see what it is you need to focus on and as you do that things will start to come together as they should; as God (Universe/Divine/Source) would have it.
So does everyone get a Twinflame? This is a tricky one and I noticed that many websites have different opinions on this. Today I was in the shower and here it came all the good insights I get when I don't have the laptop and the audio recorder ;) , I say NO. I'm going to tell you why but first I'm going to tell you IT'S OK if you don't. You can still find the love and the personal growth and connection to source without it. The important thing to remember is:
ALL connections here are important.
You must be good to YOURSELF first
You must then be good to OTHERS
Know happiness is within YOU. No one gives it to you or carries your "light" for you.
Know that no matter what it looks like in the physical world that you are always LOVED.
You don't need physical love to have TRUE LOVE. True love is in your heart where we are all connected.
The reason I say no is that I believe that all our incarnations are just as unique as our fingerprints here in our Earth life.We are all here experiencing different things for different reasons and we ALL are at different levels of spiritual growth. The other reason I say NO is because of the different perceptions/interpretations of the Twinflame concept. That can make anyones head spin! Humans have to label things and define them which is always changing. Words always change and just the same the Twinflame label continues to evolve. But there are more reasons to consider...
Michael Newton, PH.D. has written many books on this and has done many case studies over 40 years that describes the life in between lives for many people using hypnotherapy. The last book I read on this from him is Destiny of Souls. Michael Newton does NOT believe in Twinflames but then again most of our Spiritual/Metaphysical authors and New Age leaders do not believe in this as well. Michael states through all of his case studies there are what you have as a PRIMARY Soulmate. He states that this connection, should they incarnate with you, will give you a profound experience that will "enrich" your life. He also states that ALL connections are equally important. His problem with the Twinflame/Soul connction is that all case studies have taught him that no two souls are alike when born and they all have their own vibration much like a "fingerprint" as mentioned previously. He also has a huge problem with the idea that both twins must reach a state of perfection before meeting. I think this has been discussed in many Twinflame groups and forums as well. How is it that we are meeting what we believe is our Twinflame if we know we have not reached that "state of perfection"?
There are also several factors to be considered which are consistant with many Channelers, Hypnotherapists and other readers:
-We have a Soul Group that have vibrations and characteristics closer to ours than any other soul
-We have the ability to divide our being into many different incarnations at ONCE
-No two souls are alike, just closer in vibration than others
-We are each assigned to Spirit Guides/Angels to help us with all incarnations and in spirit.
So are Twinflames real and do you have one?
-I believe that we do not all have a Twinflame here on Earth.
-I believe that the term "Twinflame" is just a word that is interpreted differently by many people making this frustrating and complicated as the definition changes with each reported experience. This makes it harder to validate.
-I believe that we can divide our spirit into many layers and incarnate at the same time. Who is going to be more YOU than another aspect of YOU? Think about it?
-I believe the label Twinflame is speaking about a type of INCARNATION connection.
-I believe we all have something like a Primary Soul that has a vibration closer to our own in the entire Soul Group. I believe this could be considered something like a Twinflame or Twinsoul as they are closer to you in many ways but it still doesn't make other connections less.
-I believe these profound connections, no matter what you call them, has ONE function and that is to make us BETTER PEOPLE/SOULS and to strengthen our "God connection" and our connection to ALL.
Last but not least as to my opinion of Twinflames is ONLY YOU KNOW! Only you know YOU the best and you only know if this is the profound experience that everyone is talking about. What is this profound experience we have called Twinflame? To see more about Twinflames go to my page on this site.
My latest on MY Twinflame saga. It seems my Twinflame now has a girlfriend. This is not surprising nor upsetting to me only in that he didnt' want to tell me while he was declaring his undying love over the last week to me. It's just another clue that Twinflames just cant shake each other off completely. ;) Anyway, I'm so happy for him. I think their energy is perfect although I think he is still struggling with some of the same themes he did 3 years ago I also think this is his new chance to "do it right", now that he navigates life a little differently. He is learning. I am learning and we are all learning through love. Those of you who don't think you have met a "Twinflame" or Primary soul, believe this, you WILL come across one who knows for a fact they have and they will change your life forever in 2013! Unconditional love, pass it on.........
In light and love,