This type of hero is one who faces situations that appear to be catostrophic in the moment, and takes no prisoners as they purge their way through the smoke and flames in an effort to recreate a semblance of balance.The “catostrophic moment” I speak of could be anything. It could be the car breaking down, something important that goes missing or the computer crashing! The Discombobulated Hero rushes in to save the day fully armed with unleashed, past; frustrations, anger, resentment, stress or grief ,and attacks said crisis with the fuel of the previously mentioned that is comparable to the destructive force of an atomic bomb. The attack is thrust upon anything in it’s path. It is not discriminative toward any one thing or person in that moment. If you have ever been in the path of this Discombobulated Hero then you know the powerful wave of destruction and force that their presense exudes when addressing the issue at hand. The entire environment is completely disassembled like Chemo to Cancer; (good and bad cells targeted). The Discombobulated Hero seemingly disavov themselves of any responsibility to the colladeral damage, at least to the knowledge of any one on the receiving end of the sharp tongue and pointed finger.
So what makes the Discombobulated Hero , a hero? They are the type of person who tries to hold things in to avoid confrontation. They are the ones who are always helping but never trying to take. They love their friends and family so much that they are willing to hold their frustrations and pain for them. Their deepest desire is to help even if it is neglecting their own self of saving [as it is much easier to look outward for things to fix than to look within.] The Discombobulated Hero keeps the peace when they are surrounded by chaos. They give you spirit and inspiration even if they are flat out themselves. They are many times looked up to by others for their seemingly “thick skin” , level guidance and good insight but have rarely any one to look up to for the same.
A Discombobulated Hero is most always also an Empath but that doesn't make all Empaths a Discombobulated Hero. If you come across one, just remember, after the smoke clears that they need just as much admiration, love and gratitude as your every day hero. They are struggling to accept love and kindness as they would much rather give and carry the world on their shoulders quietly. If you see one, give them a hug. After the smoke clears of course......;)
If you are still confused as to what a Discombobulated Hero really is I'm going to share with you the text exchange with my friend that inspired this blog. She has been one of the greatest friends to me in a short amount of time and in trying to not offend any one I tried to change up my blog but rereading seeing I lost the true meaning of writing it. So after a rough afternoon here is our text conversation (and many times this is how we talk lol):
My friend: "Hey you don't think I was pissed at you about that s@#$, do you?
Me: "I'll write after I get to the High Road. I'm trying to climb it out of shape and can't catch my breath nevermind text. lol"
My friend: "Okay lol"
Me: "Stupid mirror. **hyperventilating after long walk up High Road.** lol"
My friend: " Uh Oh. Which mirror?"
Me: " The mirror reflection of the Discombobulated Hero with super powers of mass destruction. When observing an injustice, spew their wrath upon anything and anyone in it's path until the job of clearing the issue is complete. After the dust settles, the hero assesses the aftermath and has come out of their momentary state of "DEFCON" mode and says, "uh oh, did I do that?" lol
My friend: "Um, Isn't that my mirror?" lol
Me: " You are failing to grasp the true mirroring affect of the Universe! lol"
My friend: " lol.....in the dark as usual! Perhaps a windshear scattered my shot lol"
Me: "Perhaps. lol"