The funny thing about the challenge of writing about love is that it is the very thing that I have been dealing with head on for the last 1 ½ years since my Twin flame came along. Twin Flames are unconditional love. I felt it for the FIRST TIME in my life when I met my Twin Flame as I was feeling this beautiful, amazing energy that I felt was being sent by God. I knew, as I’ve mentioned before, that this was something I had to pay attention to. So here I sit thinking about where to go with this and I consider if I recognized that loving embrace from God in my Union with my Twin Flame then what is the problem? The problem is that I am still figuring out how it applies to me.
My now conscious daily work on myself and realizing the importance of ALL interactions, deemed good or bad, has helped me to better understand love. I definitely have learned to step back in situations where my ego wanted to drop in and take over an argument or disagreement. I had to learn to pull myself back and my ego to really be able to see the truth and all perspectives of a situation. Now, I still feel the need for my ego to work for me but I am more in control on how that is applied. As it relates to loved ones, I’ve learned to love them it takes trying to look through their lenses and accept their position. It never means I have to agree. So I’m not changing anything about me or my perspective necessarily but just accepting how they feel about something and paying close attention to how I respond to it. In addition to that I have learned that the more I want to CONTROL another person, what they think or how they live; I am simply just reflecting my inner conflict with who I am and how I am living. If you are that person then consider it’s time to start doing some “inner work”.
What I also learned with love is that the love you attract is who you are at the time and how you look at yourself. It’s simply the law of attraction. Do you love yourself unconditionally? Do you accept yourself? Do you accept who you are in your own skin? Whoever, whatever, however you choose to “value” yourself is just exactly how a partner will as well. Who have you attracted in your life? How is that going? If it doesn’t make you feel good then ask yourself what it is that makes you feel this way and then figure out how it relates to how you feel about yourself. In all the schooling that I’ve had the most valuable thing I have learned is that if I want to attract the greatest love and the best of friends then I have to first find the love in me.
That’s where my journey started and is still ongoing. The journey of finding me and learning to love myself. The only way I was going to do that was to see my “living” reflection and I have done that by witnessing myself in my Twin Flame. Not everyone gets that chance but I am sure that you have had Soul Mates walk in and out of your life. Those are pieces of you that have come to remind you to develop a better relationship with yourself, to love and accept yourself, know who you are and let it shine. It is certainly a process.
One of my closest and dearest friends , who is going through a lot of personal change and upheaval, just asked me this morning, “Gosh all this change lately, it’s simply too much. When will this end?” I replied, “It’s not.” She had a distressed sort of look on her face and I explained to her the need for all this. That more and more of us on this Earth are going to continue to experience these huge changes. The important thing to remember is to be conscious of how we respond to it and what we need to focus on within before looking outward for that special someone.
With 2012 almost upon us we are also experiencing transformation Worldwide as the Universe is showing us it’s time to work. It’s time to peel away the old layers that we have acquired as a response to not properly loving ourselves and expressing our true self. It’s time for love
to take command and bring peace to our lives; our World. The harder and faster you make this your focus in your daily life; to love yourself unconditionally and others too, the process of attracting True Love begins and thus healing for ourselves and our great Earth.
Love & Light,